Tempura
No place in SL provides me the serenity that Tempura does. I'm able to Tai or meditate... sometimes both so that my mind and soul can become one again.
I lived in the Orient almost 2 years... primarily Japan and found that happiness and contentment are not given by others but by what you're willing to give to yourself.
The people I allow into my life are there for one reason... because they bring me Joy by their very presence!