8: A good Submissive

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A good sub, any good sub, will challenge their dominant. He/She will test their boundaries, push and nudge. Sometimes they are obvious, sometimes they are subtle. But they are ALWAYS tugging at her leash. They need to feel the resistance, to know that the leash is held, because it makes them feel safe. If you let the leash go slack, they will slip away. If you yank it too hard, they will choke and die. It is a simple, constant tension, that defines a Dominant as a Master or Mistress. It is not empty, void threats and stomping off like a child. It is the passing of a look of disapproval, a subtle graceful thing that a Dominant does as an act of love. When they yank hard, they do not yank back as hard as they can. If anything, they show them in their calm grasp that they are merciful and could do worse. If they punish them, it is not out of revenge, but out of love. Desire not to see them suffering, but learning. To comfort them with their strength, with their boundaries.

Quoted from Ashelia Difference.